How often do you check you hair in a mirror. If you think about it, you would find that it is more often than you think.

 Hair is what defines our face and is one of the sexiest outer parts of our presentation to others. Is it any surprise that hair is about sex? 

 Most people spend more time taking care of their hair than almost any thing else. The way our hair looks and feels is part of our being. If you don't think so...read on.

  If anything gently touches your hair during the day or night we notice it. Hair affects your mood, and outlook on life.  If you disagree, ask yourself what happens on a bad hair day?  Why does it affect the confidence we feel and the power in a relationship (with another woman or with a man)? When an attractive male approaches we immediately begin grooming our hair…talk about just out of the caves!

  Don’t think it is wrong, it is part of who we are as living breathing human beings. The point is that we have to understand that hair is important in our lives and it is a part of our sexual being.  When we touch, smell, caress, or fondle our mate, it is a sexual act.  How often does the smell of your lover give you goose bumps?  If it doesn’t it might be sign that you both have something to work on…don't go overboard, he may need to wash his hair.

 No matter what we own in this life or the role we play in the world when your hair is not right, you will miss out on that attention, spark, and feel from others. Your body may be perfect, but your hair is what you care for more than those abs.

  Some of the most beautiful women in the world, the super models, spend endless hours at the salon to get that “easy to care for” hair style. The way our hair is cut and styled sends a message to everyone about our inner self.  It says that we are happy or sad, clean or dirty, well taken care of or not taken care of at all.  If your hair is not up to par it says we don’t think much of ourselves.

Hair for many is simply the most important part of our outer self.  Let it reflect our inner peace, our security, and our style. 

  Most doctors agree that hair is a secondary sex object.  In most societies it is not acceptable to openly display our primary sexual objects (to be obtuse).This is the reason hair has such power.  It is an expression of our sexual health and our sexual readiness.  If you don’t think so, ask yourself if you are attracted to men that don’t take care of their hair.  If they have clean, fresh well trimmed hair, they at least will pass first inspection.  It is the same for women. The difference is that women can even flaunt their hair to tease men.

  The color and length of hair is even associated with seduction and emotion.  Redheads are seen as sexual aggressive, brunettes as aggressive and blonds as more openly sexual.  It has nothing to do with the actual person. How many women have colored their hair to get a different look from men?  Longer hair is seen as openly seductive and short hair means a free thinker and individual. 

  Loss of hair in either men or women is associated with loss of sexuality. Overall your hair says a lot to others about you.

  So What to do?  Realize that impact that your hair has on others.If you want that data, friendship, relationship, promotion, date, etc…learn to take care of your hair.