Actually the time in your forties, fifties, and sixties can be the best time of your life.  If you do a few simple things to keep yourself well groomed, women will flock to your door.  Nobody likes dirty, untrimmed hair from strange places on your head, and eruptions from your skin. Keep yourself well groomed and your ladies will love you all the more.

Your hair and scalp should be cleaned, on average, every other day," says Dr. Andrea Lynn Cambio, a board-certified dermatologist in New York City.  This will keep you from getting the dandruff and loose "particles" from showing up on your clothes and elsewhere.  Included in this advice is the absolute requirement to get a good hair cut.  You may not think your wife/daughter/girlfriend notices you now...but get yourself cleaned up and suprise her. See what happens!

Make sure that you also use some moisturizing sunscreen on your face. Use it even if you are not going out in the sun.  It will help to restores some of the natural elasticity to your skin and stop the flakes, sun freckles, and discolorations from showing up on your face.

The number one thing to do for your looks is to stop smoking.  Go to a mall and try to spot the people that smoke.  Look at their faces.  If smoking does this to your face, what the "bleep" is it doing to your insides.  Believe it or not, most women, even women that smoke, would rather be with a man that does not smoke.  Argue against that...look at the statistices.  Eighty-four percent of US women don't smoke.  Now that I think about it let me change this reccomendation...please go for the twenty-six percert of the women with bad breath, bad skin, and gunk producing coughs that do smoke.  That leaves the good ones for me.

Finally, don't obsess over your lost youth. You are the way you look now, so revel in it. Life is too short.  Have fun and live life and your ladies will love you for it.